Checkbook Control vs Custodian Directed: Which Do You Need?
It comes down to how many times money has to move.
If your investment is one payment out and one payment back, a custodian directed self directed IRA handles it fine and costs less to set up. If your investment involves earnest money, closing costs, repairs, vendors, and monthly rent, waiting on a custodian for each of those becomes the whole problem, and checkbook control is what fixes it.
That is the decision. Everything below is the detail behind it.
The phone call that sends most people here
Someone calls the brokerage holding their IRA and asks about buying a rental property with it. The answer is no.
That is not an unusual outcome or a sign the request was strange. The large brokerages are built to hold publicly traded assets. Their systems, their custody arrangements, and their revenue all run on stocks, bonds, mutual funds and the products they issue themselves. Holding a rental house in a client account is outside what that machinery does.
So a caller with $150,000 in an IRA who wants to buy a $100,000 rental in their hometown gets told it cannot be done, usually followed by suggestions for other products. Those suggestions are sincere. They are also a list of what that firm is able to sell.
At the very top of the wealth scale the answer changes, because bespoke arrangements exist for accounts of a certain size. For everyone else, no is the standard answer, and it is a limitation of the provider rather than of the law. Your IRA is permitted to own real estate. That brokerage simply is not set up to hold it.
The next step is moving the account to a self directed custodian that is. Then this article's question arrives: do you also need checkbook control, or is the custodian enough?
What both options have in common
Worth clearing up, because the terms get used loosely.
Both are self directed IRAs. Both let your retirement account own real estate, notes, private loans and other assets a brokerage will not hold. Both require a licensed self directed custodian, and in both cases that custodian holds the account, keeps the records, and reports to the IRS.
The same rules apply to both. Disqualified persons, no personal use, no paying yourself, every expense out of the account. Neither structure changes what you are allowed to own or who you are allowed to deal with.
The only thing that differs is who signs and who moves the money.
How custodian directed actually works
You find an investment. You complete the custodian's paperwork directing them to make it. You send that paperwork in, along with the purchase agreement and whatever supporting documents they require. They review it, and when everything is correct they sign and send the funds.
Most custodians advertise two to three business days to process a transaction.
Read that number carefully, because it carries a caveat that matters more than the number does.
The part nobody tells you about the timeline
The clock starts when the custodian has everything from you, complete and correct. The industry phrase is "in good order," and it is doing a lot of work.
Submit your package on Monday with one required document missing, and the clock has not started. The custodian reviews what you sent, comes back and tells you what is missing or what was filled out incorrectly, and the ball returns to your court. You fix it. You resubmit. Now the clock starts, assuming this round is complete.
If something else is wrong, that cycle repeats.
So the honest range is a minimum of three business days and potentially a good deal longer, driven not by the custodian being slow but by how many rounds it takes to get a paperwork package perfect. First-timers rarely get it right on the first submission, because they do not yet know what that particular custodian wants to see.
Compare that to the checkbook alternative, where you write the check. There is no package, no review, and no cycle.
For a purchase with a thirty day close and no competing offers, three business days plus a resubmission or two is survivable. For earnest money due within 48 hours of an accepted offer, it is not.
What the fees look like
There is no single answer here, because every custodian prices differently. The shapes you will encounter:
- A wire fee, often around $30 per outgoing wire.
- An asset purchase fee, commonly around $100, charged when the custodian executes an investment on your behalf. Most custodians have one. The amount varies.
- A per asset annual fee, sometimes another $100 a year for each asset carried on their books, which raises your annual cost as you add holdings.
Add those up against how you actually invest. One purchase and one sale over five years is a small number. A property with a purchase, quarterly vendor payments and an eventual sale is a very different number, and each of those transactions also carries the timeline described above.
Ask any custodian for the full fee schedule in writing before you decide. And ask whether the annual fee is flat or tied to the value or the number of assets, because that answer compounds over a long hold.
When custodian directed is genuinely the better choice
This is not a soft concession. For a real category of investment, it is the correct answer.
The clearest example is a passive note. You lend $50,000. Twelve months later the borrower pays back $60,000 in a single balloon payment. That is two transactions across an entire year, and at no point during the hold do you need access to the cash.
Paying to set up an entity and maintain a separate bank account for that is spending money to solve a problem you do not have. The custodian sends the money out and receives it back, and their fee for doing so is a fraction of what checkbook control costs to establish.
The same logic covers most low activity holdings. If the asset does not generate expenses, does not require you to pay vendors, and does not put you against deadlines, the case for checkbook control is weak.
There is a second, smaller reason people choose it. Some investors want the custodian's review as a backstop. That review is real, though narrower than people assume. It catches a missing signature or a wrong document before funds move. It does not tell you whether the deal is any good. If you would rather have that oversight than have speed, that is a legitimate preference rather than a failure of nerve.
When checkbook control earns its cost
The asset type usually answers this before anything else does.
Real estate, or nearly anything connected to it, generates transactions continuously. Earnest money on a deadline. Closing costs. Inspections. A property manager. Insurance. Property taxes. Rent arriving monthly. Every one of those is a movement of money, and under a custodian directed structure every one of them is a form, a review, and a wait.
That is why real estate and checkbook control tend to go together. It is not that the rules require it. It is that the transaction load makes the alternative impractical.
The same is true of anyone writing offers with real timelines, running more than one deal, or paying vendors on an ordinary schedule. Speed stops being a luxury when a seller wants earnest money in 48 hours.
What you take on in exchange is responsibility. You are the one signing, so you are the one who has to know what you cannot do. That is a real trade and it is worth naming plainly.
A simple way to decide
Count the transactions your investment will require over the next three years. Not the dollars, the transactions.
Under about five, and none of them urgent, custodian directed is likely enough and cheaper. Above that, or with any deadline attached, the arithmetic turns and checkbook control pays for itself in the first avoided delay.
Then ask one more question: is any of this time sensitive? A single number that would otherwise sit comfortably in the custodian directed column moves the other way if it has to happen inside 48 hours.
We have set up 400+ checkbook structures over 13+ years, and part of the job is telling people when they do not need one. If a passive note is your plan, you will hear that, because selling you a structure you will not use is a bad trade for both of us.
If you have already decided checkbook control is right for you, the next question is which entity holds it. That comparison is here: IRA LLC vs IRA Trust. If you want the full explanation of the structure itself, start with how a checkbook IRA LLC works.
Ted Erickson is the founder of MyDirect IRA. He has spent 13+ years in the self-directed retirement account industry and has established 400+ checkbook IRA structures for clients in all 50 states. He is a licensed California real estate salesperson and mortgage loan originator.
This information is for educational purposes only and should not be considered tax, legal, or investment advice. Consult your own tax or legal advisor before making any investment or plan-structure decisions.



